It is better to design ur own life than living ur life based on others life. Which they have esterblished for themselves. To design ur own life based on how u want ur feature to be, can be charllenging of cause nothing in life is eassy. But it is worth trying. If u never try you will nerver know how it will go! The Important thing is, don’t set expectations because u will fell. Just go ahead with ur plans and se where it takes u. So the good thing in designing ur life, will be the positive inpart u make in the process.